He wanted to know the mission of Be the Cause.Â Once again I was stumped.Â I looked over at Angela to rescue me.Â With a shrug, we both knew that Be the Cause had no mission.Â Itâ€™s been four and half years and we still havenâ€™t quite figured out what we do.
We fumbled with our response, dropped some buzz-words like â€œserviceâ€, â€œcompassionâ€, and â€œgrass-rootsâ€, but we knew that our words were not capturing the essence of it.Â Ultimately, words will never be enough.Â I just hoped that he understood in the way that I shook his hand.Â With love.
Outside, both Angela and I felt comfortable in not knowing, and also in knowing that the secret was hidden somewhere in our hearts.Â That the mission of Be the Cause was no different than the mission of our lives: to love.Â For four and half years we have been missionless, directionless, and objectiveless.Â Somehow, it still seems to work.I think of the volunteer who stopped slitting her wrists because she found joy in serving others.Â I think of Maushmi and her gang of volunteers in Houston as they played the violin for a man who died minutes later.Â I think back to last yearâ€™s walk for hope as 30 cars were lined up on the side of the road at 4:30AM ready to spend the day serving others.
I think about all the Compassion Cells that Jeska has coordinated.Â All the Evenings of Awareness that Michele, Mahsa and Raquel have helped create.Â The Service Vacation trips that Bharti and Karuna have worked on.Â The Sacred Site visits that Jason helps coordinate.Â Where would we be without our website in place through the efforts of Alfred, Anshul, Stacey, Manveer, Baldeep, and Supun.Â â€¦ and the foundation of Be the Cause itself, laid by folks like Muna, Barbara, Eleanor, Alex, Rebecca, Cheryl, and Shaheda.Â The Change of Heart weekend coming together because of Ann.Â The handling of our finances by Albert.Â All the amazing graphic design work done by Nirali.Â Our Google Adwords campaign by Sonali.Â The online calendar being kept up-to-date without fail by Gianna and Manuri.Â Melisa working on our media press releases.Â And previous Walk for Hopes coordinated by many people including Thu-Trang, Ben, Kristeen, Mike, Divya, Harpal, Simoina, Larry, Brenda, Ganesh.Â The list goes on and on.Â The Evening in India organized by the travelers including Lanie, Carolina, Marcella, Angel, Laura.Â Our mail being collected by Srini.Â Srikanth and Elizabeth stepping in to take charge of the upcoming Seva Cafe.Â â€¦ and thereâ€™s more.Â
Where would we be without Bill and his mother Barbara biking into the Walk for Hope on accident, and immediately becoming life-long friends.Â Without Aena, Hamood and her 1 year old son Mikail taking the train all the way from Ventura to spend one evening with us.Â Without Thoi who drove all night from the Bay area to spend one day with us, and then drove right back in the evening.Â Without Prerna threatening to move us all to Hong Kong to start a chapter there.Â Without our friends at Charity Focus, Manav Sadhna, Tias Arms, ARO, Power of Love, LifeNets, and many others.
Somehow without a mission, without any structure, without any incentive plans, without stock options, without work-life balance, without hierarchy, without office spaces overlooking the ocean, without any titles, and without any clues as to where we are heading, somehow it works.Â
It all came together last week when a friend left a check for $1000 without being asked.Â The next day I called her to Thank her and she just said it was a gift from the universeâ€¦ to the universe.Â Enough said!
I guess Be the Cause is quite simply just that: a gift from the universe.Â Our mission: to love.