Be the Cause

Service Celebration — 4th July 2005, Houston

We asked random folks at the park to share an act of kindness. Here are some of the responses….

It’s 4th July. It’s picnic in the park. Families and children. Everyone’s having a good time until a child falls down and gets injured. It’s a deep gash and the mother is in panic. In rushes Shannon, who with her husband, Mike, is waiting for the fireworks to begin. She has her medical first-aid kit handy, just for emergencies like this, and this is not the first time. The child needs sutures, but they stop the bleeding – a first step in any life saving act. Kindness doesn’t have to begin at 9. – per Mike, proudly wearing a yellow ‘Livestrong’ and a green ‘NASA return to flight’ wristband.

Bought Mom flowers and took her out to dinner.
– a mid-40ish ‘model child’.

Imagine a big 250 lb black man who proceeds to squeeze into a kids chair, like it’s the most normal thing in the world. The result is not out of the ordinary. The
chair tumbles, the man falls, with his legs high in the air. But hey, what better way to start a gaggle of kids giggling with utmost amusement, like only kids can.
– per Ruth.

It’s the era of Vietnam War and racial de-segregation. It’s also the era when hitchhiking was a rite of passage and no one thought twice of giving a ride to a
stranger. A young ‘white’ boy – he’s not really white – is hitchhiking from Michigan to Texas . From the tranquil north to the burning south. He’s picked by a
back man. The dichotomy couldn’t be more profound. Obviously it’s not a ride that will take him all the way to the south. Over the short journey the two men
talk. A man with share-cropper parentage and a man with Puerto Rican parentage, may not have many things in common, and yet they do. By the time the young man hops off, wary nervous smiles have given way to warm easy laughter. The negro divulges that he’d a shotgun hidden all the time, in case the white man had acted funny. Perhaps, this was one of those random connections that one never forgets in a life-time. One never knows where kindness can lead.

Another Vietnam-era tale. Let’s take a one horse town and call it Jackson (no offence meant). There’s only one flight out of town, in the evening. You miss it,
and you sleep overnight at the ‘airport’ – there’s no hotel- to catch next night’s flight. A young marine barely makes it to the hangar/ airport, only to be told the flight is readying for take-off. The marine can’t take ‘No’ for an answer. It’s his last day of leave and if he misses this flight, he will be AWOL, which in the period of general disillusionment wrought by the war, and even otherwise, is a very serious
charge for a serving marine. What should he do? What will you do? He rushes out to the tarmac. The plane has taxied to the end of the runway and the pilot is
revving up the motors. This is a small propeller driven civilian transport. One flip of lever and the plane will bounce awkwardly like a stumbling bird over the runway and be airborne in minutes. The marine is shouting and gesticulating wildly from the ground, but the pilot can barely hear him, the cockpit is sound-proof. But his gestures convey the urgency of his voice. The pilot stops the engines, the door opens, the marine scrambles in, no treason charges get
filed, and a career is saved. Another random act of kindness that almost didn’t happen. Not highly recommended in today’s age of FAA guidelines, in case
you’re a pilot reading this. – both told by an ex-marine, who’d rather stay
nameless, and say ‘semper -fi’ instead.

Adopted a sick, homeless kitten. -Lauren

Gave ride to her brand new neighbour. – Anjali

3rd Evening of Awareness

Well, we’ve completed another Evening of Awareness, and the events are getting better each time, if I do say so myself. As people have heard me say, the goal behind these events is to learn about humanitarian issues, but also to learn about the people behind those issues. I really believe that as the most priviledged people in the world, its the very least we can do, just to know about the social inequities and injustices that affect so many people in the world. Each of these Evenings of Awareness have had their own challenges and their own special rewards. This last event had the challange of being on a Friday evening, at a location south of the 405 freeway at the end of June. We were competing with Friday night traffic, end of the work week fatigue, and graduations. The event was scheduled to begin at 7:30pm and as we approached 7:00pm, there was hardly anyone there. As the clock continued to move closer toward 7:30, my heart just sank further and further. Logically, I knew that the success of the event shouldnt be measured by the number of people that showed up, but by the quality of the program. However, I just felt so invested in making sure people got to learn about the plight of refugees and victims of human trafficking that I couldnt help but feel discouraged. Suddenly, almost out of nowhere, the people started showing up, and showing up, and showing up. Before long, we were looking for extra chairs. I think we had at least 150 people in attendance.We started a little late, but the program was great! We started with an interactive activity that Stacey came up with called “web of advocacy” that got all the guests at each of the tables talking to each other about how various global issues (and thus, all the people impacted by them) are interconnected. Various community activists who work with refugees and victims of human trafficking helped out with this activity. Our key note speaker, Thanh Nguyen, shared about his experiences as a former Vietnamese refugee and what happened when he fled Vietnam by boat in the 80’s. Next, was a totally dynamite dance performance by the Baha’i Youth Workshop. We saw a couple of video clips about refugees and human trafficking. Then we had the Q&A with the panel of experts that came from LA, OC, and San Diego and all shared unique perspectives on human trafficking that are specific to each county. We also got to learn about the difference between refugees and internally displaced people, who dont have the same rights as refugees, but suffer just the same. We had great door prizes to give away and incredible information tables. It was a great evening. Sukh kind of summed it up best when he thanked the guests for coming. He told them how before each Evening of Awareness, we all second guess ourselves, wondering if people really care about the crisis in Darfur, or poverty and AIDS in Africa, or refugees and victims of human trafficking. Not the sexiest stuff to talk about, no matter how many great door prizes you have to give away. But by showing up, they validated to us that people really do want to know and people really do care. That’s what keeps me looking forward to the next Evenings of Awareness.

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